Trond moves to a remote home in the forest
Out Stealing HorsesTrond Sander moves to a remote home in the forest after bereavement has altered his relation to work, other people, and the life he has been living. The small house in the far east of Norway is not simply a retreat: its difficult condition asks for patient, practical attention, while its proximity to the forest answers a longing that grief has made newly urgent.
The house and its surroundings
The house stands near the mouth of a modest river that flows into a lake. The river becomes shallow in summer but runs briskly in spring and autumn, and Trond has caught trout in it. Its mouth is only a hundred metres away; once the birch leaves have fallen, it is visible from his kitchen window. A cottage farther down by the river comes into view from his doorstep when its lights are on. An older man lives there with a border collie, making the nearest human presence part of the same landscape as the water and trees.
The setting is encountered through repeated acts of looking and attending. In early November, Trond watches titmice strike the window, sometimes fluttering away and sometimes falling into the new snow before recovering. From the house he sees a reddish light over the trees by the lake and the shape of the wind on the water. The forest is not an abstract wilderness beyond the home: it is a daily presence framed by the kitchen window, close enough to organize the view and distant enough to remain something he observes.
The decision to leave his former life
Trond's move follows the deaths of his wife and his sister within the course of one month. His wife died in an accident three years before the present narrative, an accident Trond himself only just survived. His sister died of cancer after being diagnosed too late for anything to be done. The losses coincide with a withdrawal from ordinary conversation: after they are gone, he finds he has little interest in talking to people and does not know what to talk about.
He also stops working after his wife's death, pensions himself off, and begins looking for a completely new place to live. The forest supplies a second, distinct reason for the move. It had been part of his life many years earlier, then absent for a long time; when the losses make everything around him feel silent, he recognizes how much he has missed it. Going to the forest becomes, in his account, a direct necessity rather than an elaborate plan: if he is to go on living, he has to return to it.
A neglected house made habitable
The house attracts people because of its lovely situation, but its condition has discouraged them. Local residents later tell Trond that many had wanted the place and that they would have warned him how much work it needed. He is glad he did not know the extent of the repairs beforehand: with that knowledge, he says, he would not have bought it and would not have discovered that it could be lived in without demanding that everything be fixed at once.
Instead, the house becomes manageable through incremental work. Trond takes one step at a time, a pace suited to someone who has retired and is in no hurry to go anywhere. His happiness at finding the place is therefore not a claim that the house is comfortable or finished. It rests on the possibility of making it livable gradually, while its situation offers what he came looking for.
Solitude among other people
Trond is not unknown in the nearby community, but being known does not mean being understood. At first, residents ask about him cautiously in the checkout queue. Over time they learn the outline of his life: his working history, age, bereavement, earlier marriage, grown-up children, and grandchildren. He tells them that he chose to retire and that he is happy with the house. These facts make him legible to the village, but he recognizes that people supply their own feelings and assumptions to complete the story. They know about him, not what his experiences or choices mean to him.
His place among local residents also differs from that of the seasonal visitors who arrive in large cars at Easter and in summer to fish, play poker, and drink in the evenings. Trond is understood to have come to stay. Yet his move does not amount to a simple rejection of all human contact: he exchanges greetings, answers questions, and accepts the ordinary visibility of village life, while keeping his inward life beyond what these exchanges disclose.
A new rhythm of attention
At sixty-seven, Trond describes himself as still spry, but the news on the radio no longer occupies the same place in his understanding of the world. The British Broadcasting Corporation's World Service offers reports from elsewhere, including cricket results from countries such as Jamaica, Pakistan, India, and Sri Lanka, a game he has never seen and does not expect to see. Such listening gives the remote house a connection to the wider world without undoing its distance from it.
The move also establishes a daily rhythm built from modest tasks and close observation. Trond wakes before daylight, tends the fire, walks around, reads the previous day's paper, washes a few dishes, and watches birds at a table in the yard. He has seen eight species there; only the titmice fly into the window. Lyra, whose short bark at the steps serves as a signal, is let outside and back in as the morning proceeds. These routines do not erase grief. They make a life possible around it, in a place where the forest he had long missed has again become part of each day.